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can't stand my in-laws
I struggle with my husband and father’s constant arguments

I struggle with my husband and father’s constant arguments

I constantly find myself mediating the relentless arguments between my husband and my father, both of whom have hot tempers.
I want to move out as my in-laws don’t respect me

I want to move out as my in-laws don’t respect me

My wife holds grudge against my mother after being scolded following her miscarriage

My wife holds grudge against my mother after being scolded following her miscarriage

My in-laws urge my husband to divorce me and marry someone else

My in-laws urge my husband to divorce me and marry someone else

My husband’s parents are pressuring my husband to divorce me and remarry, holding me responsible for not discouraging his gambling habits.
December 29, 2024 | 03:15 pm PT
My mother-in-law treats my child unfairly because she dislikes me

My mother-in-law treats my child unfairly because she dislikes me

My husband’s mother treats my child indifferently and has never checked up on them, despite showing adoration for my brother-in-law’s children.
December 28, 2024 | 01:38 am PT
I can’t stand anyone from my husband’s family

I can’t stand anyone from my husband’s family

Seeing anyone from my in-laws now fills me with hatred due to their longstanding condescension toward me and my family ever since I started dating my husband.
December 24, 2024 | 03:14 pm PT
My husband expects me to visit his parents every time I visit mine, despite their distance

My husband expects me to visit his parents every time I visit mine, despite their distance

I typically see my parents once or twice a month, yet my husband insists that I visit his parents just as often, even though they live five times farther away.
December 23, 2024 | 07:30 pm PT
I can’t bring myself to respect my in-laws

I can’t bring myself to respect my in-laws

I find it hard to love and respect my husband’s parents after discovering that my father-in-law stole from me and my mother-in-law insisted on keeping it a secret.
December 19, 2024 | 03:30 pm PT
My in-laws always leave cooking responsibilities to my husband and me during family gatherings

My in-laws always leave cooking responsibilities to my husband and me during family gatherings

While I don’t mind the gatherings themselves, it becomes problematic when I have to take time off work, go to the market, and cook every time my husband’s family gets together.
September 5, 2024 | 03:00 pm PT
My husband wants me to quit my job to care for his parents

My husband wants me to quit my job to care for his parents

My husband has expressed his desire for me to leave my employment to focus on taking care of our children and his elderly parents, promising to provide financial support in return.
August 18, 2024 | 05:20 pm PT
My mother-in-law reprimands us for leaving her to take care of our children

My mother-in-law reprimands us for leaving her to take care of our children

We listened in silence as my wife’s mother voiced her frustrations, leading my wife to retreat to her room in tears and later suggest that I consider a job change to better accommodate our children’s needs.
August 4, 2024 | 05:54 am PT
My husband expects me to wake up at 4 am to make breakfast for in-laws

My husband expects me to wake up at 4 am to make breakfast for in-laws

My husband questions why his mother must continue to wake early to prepare breakfast when she has a daughter-in-law at home.
July 26, 2024 | 10:13 pm PT
I’m uncomfortable with my boastful sister-in-law

I’m uncomfortable with my boastful sister-in-law

I was taken aback to discover that my nephew was in perfect health despite my sister-in-law’s claims of him suffering from a fever ranging between 40 and 41 degrees Celsius.
April 18, 2024 | 03:08 pm PT
 
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