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I struggle with my husband and father’s constant arguments

I struggle with my husband and father’s constant arguments

I constantly find myself mediating the relentless arguments between my husband and my father, both of whom have hot tempers.
I want to move out as my in-laws don’t respect me

I want to move out as my in-laws don’t respect me

My wife holds grudge against my mother after being scolded following her miscarriage

My wife holds grudge against my mother after being scolded following her miscarriage

My in-laws urge my husband to divorce me and marry someone else

My in-laws urge my husband to divorce me and marry someone else

My husband’s parents are pressuring my husband to divorce me and remarry, holding me responsible for not discouraging his gambling habits.
December 29, 2024 | 03:15 pm PT
My mother-in-law treats my child unfairly because she dislikes me

My mother-in-law treats my child unfairly because she dislikes me

My husband’s mother treats my child indifferently and has never checked up on them, despite showing adoration for my brother-in-law’s children.
December 28, 2024 | 01:38 am PT
I can’t stand anyone from my husband’s family

I can’t stand anyone from my husband’s family

Seeing anyone from my in-laws now fills me with hatred due to their longstanding condescension toward me and my family ever since I started dating my husband.
December 24, 2024 | 03:14 pm PT
My in-laws always leave cooking responsibilities to my husband and me during family gatherings

My in-laws always leave cooking responsibilities to my husband and me during family gatherings

While I don’t mind the gatherings themselves, it becomes problematic when I have to take time off work, go to the market, and cook every time my husband’s family gets together.
September 5, 2024 | 03:00 pm PT
My husband wants me to quit my job to care for his parents

My husband wants me to quit my job to care for his parents

My husband has expressed his desire for me to leave my employment to focus on taking care of our children and his elderly parents, promising to provide financial support in return.
August 18, 2024 | 05:20 pm PT
My mother-in-law reprimands us for leaving her to take care of our children

My mother-in-law reprimands us for leaving her to take care of our children

We listened in silence as my wife’s mother voiced her frustrations, leading my wife to retreat to her room in tears and later suggest that I consider a job change to better accommodate our children’s needs.
August 4, 2024 | 05:54 am PT
My husband declines to share home with my mother

My husband declines to share home with my mother

When I proposed to my husband that we move in with my mother to reduce our family expenses, he declined, stating he would prefer to rent his own place and live alone.
July 29, 2024 | 07:23 pm PT
My husband expects me to wake up at 4 am to make breakfast for in-laws

My husband expects me to wake up at 4 am to make breakfast for in-laws

My husband questions why his mother must continue to wake early to prepare breakfast when she has a daughter-in-law at home.
July 26, 2024 | 10:13 pm PT
My father-in-law refuses to lend me money but buys a company for my neighbor

My father-in-law refuses to lend me money but buys a company for my neighbor

I can’t understand why he trusts my neighbor enough to buy him a company and lend him money for share acquisition, yet won’t support my own business ambitions financially.
July 22, 2024 | 03:00 pm PT
I wonder if my in-laws really don’t care about me

I wonder if my in-laws really don’t care about me

Observing the close relationships between my mother and my paternal grandmother, as well as between my mother and my sister-in-law, I feel saddened by my strained relationship with my mother-in-law.
July 21, 2024 | 03:10 pm PT
My in-laws expect me to show filial piety despite having previously opposed our marriage

My in-laws expect me to show filial piety despite having previously opposed our marriage

We married without my parents-in-law’s approval, yet now they urge us to move in and care for them in their old age.
July 16, 2024 | 03:12 pm PT
I’m seeking permission from my in-laws to reside with my mother

I’m seeking permission from my in-laws to reside with my mother

I visit my mother’s place, which is a 45-minute drive from my in-laws’ residence, every weekend, but I often still find myself in tears due to missing her.
May 27, 2024 | 05:36 pm PT
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