From Parisians to Hanoians: Elegance, identity, and beauty

Parisians are renowned for their sharp wit. Stories abound of how American tourists in Paris often feel unsure of how locals perceive them. The U.S. media is filled with advice on how Americans should dress and behave in Paris to avoid standing out.

The show "Emily in Paris", praised for its fashion, became a laughingstock among Parisians, who criticized the characters for being bland compared to Paris's true elegance.

Speaking of Paris's elegance, many Vietnamese tourists might shake their heads, recalling cold service in restaurants, streets full of scammers and pickpockets, and sidewalks littered with dog waste. But Paris is not called the City of Light solely for its beauty—it is also because Paris welcomes everyone, even a homeless man sleeping by the Louvre Palace.

Despite their reputation for being "snobbish and arrogant," Parisians still welcome and nurture many remarkable people. Ernest Hemingway may be the quintessential Paris American: "If you are lucky enough to have lived in Paris as a young man, then wherever you go for the rest of your life, it stays with you, for Paris is a moveable feast," he wrote in "A Moveable Feast".

For Hemingway, Parisians were simple yet essential to his joy in life—whether it was a relaxed woman delivering goat milk, a pensive fisherman on the Seine, or a charming waiter in a bar. These characters helped him understand the value of literature and life.

Even today, walking through a Parisian neighborhood early in the morning reveals the timeless elegance of its people. They don't venture out in pajamas or flaunt their bellies. Even an elderly couple buying a baguette will dress properly. Paris is the capital of fashion, but this doesn't mean Parisians are draped in luxury brands. Instead, they masterfully combine colors and styles, harmonizing with the city's ancient golden arches.

When a blonde-haired, blue-eyed café waitress invites you to order breakfast in the sweetest French and smiles as you choose a croissant, orange juice, and espresso, you can finally say, "This is my Paris."

Moments when the world recognizes the beauty of Paris are frequent, such as during the 2024 Summer Olympics. For tourists, the city always smiles warmly, with its elegant Parisian officers chivalrous and reliable.

While comparing Hanoi to Paris may seem unfair, many have remarked that no city in the East resembles Paris more than Hanoi. Despite being criticized as rude or rough, Hanoi retains its charm through its people.

Hanoi remains beautiful. You might walk out one morning and see a young girl quietly enjoying noodles soup near the city's ancient iconic Eastern Gate. Despite the bustling surroundings, she stays tranquil, occasionally smiling at the graceful stall owner. What they share remains between them, not for others to hear.

I believe the title "Hanoians" belongs to those who maintain their charm regardless of wealth. They are fortunate to live in such a beautiful city and aspire to honor it through their way of life.

You can find that elegance everywhere, whether in a common person or a public figure, a stranger or an acquaintance. What's beautiful about Hanoi is that no matter how busy or unclean it may be, its essence never changes. We can overlook what doesn't matter and live for what does.

In today's era of mass migration, the concept of a "Hanoian" is evolving. But if you live in Hanoi and contribute to its beauty, civility, elegance, and pride, then you are, without a doubt, a true Hanoian.