Why I chose to stay in Europe instead of returning to Vietnam

After studying abroad, I realized that if I took my skills and experiences back to Vietnam, I might struggle to compete in the job market against other Vietnamese professionals.

I began my academic journey at Hanoi University of Science and Technology before moving to South Korea for further studies. After completing my degree there, I returned to Vietnam, found work, and made an effort to settle down. But I soon found that Vietnam's working environment didn't suit me, prompting me to leave again—this time to pursue a Ph.D. in Europe. Although I didn't finish my doctoral program, I found employment here and have stayed ever since.

The Western work culture aligns better with my skills and experience, which makes it easier to feel productive and fulfilled. While I don't mind competing with others here in Europe, I believe that in Vietnam, my approach and experience would place me at a disadvantage.

A woman stands on a beach with a large suitcase. Illustration photo by Unsplash/Anastasia Nelen

I financed my education without family or state support, giving me the freedom to stay abroad without obligations to return. While I don't consider myself particularly successful, my income here affords me a comfortable life. Returning to Vietnam, however, could bring challenges that would outweigh the benefits of being close to family and friends.

This decision is not a critique of Vietnam's work culture but rather an acknowledgment of where I thrive best. For now, visiting Vietnam brings joy and connection with loved ones—but I know that, at least for me, living there would be an entirely different experience.