I am 37 and studying every day to improve my life

I am 37, my husband is 35. In my younger years, I spent every dime I made on travel and entertainment. At 28, I got married and had to take out a bank loan just to afford the wedding. Luckily, we did not go into debt afterward.

A year later, we had a child. Our baby had poor health and spent more time in hospitals than at home. Our savings quickly disappeared. There were nights when all I could do was hold my baby in my arms and cry.

I even sold my wedding ring to pay for medical treatments. Then, just as my child's condition worsened, my husband had an accident and could not work. I became the family's sole provider. I had no choice but to stay strong. Eventually, those difficult times passed, but they left their mark on us.

A woman takes an online course on her computer. Illustration photo by Pexels

After five years, we had a second child. Because we had to send the baby to daycare early, illnesses became frequent, and I found myself again visiting the hospital. I took so much leave that I missed out on raises and promotions.

What kept me going through those exhausting years was my commitment to learning. I was never a top student, but I knew education could change my life. Every morning at 5 a.m., I studied with my newborn in my arms. I took every course that could help my career—English, health, professional qualifications. Now, I am also learning Chinese through online classes.

Every night, after putting the kids to sleep, I sit in front of my laptop and study. I fear that if I do not push myself forward, I will be left behind. My husband and I live simply. We shop once a week, plan our meals, and cook enough food to last for days to save time. In the mornings, I spend 30 minutes preparing breakfast and lunch for my family. Evenings are for picking up the kids from school and making dinner.

Luxury does not interest me. I prefer a simple life—less cleaning, fewer distractions, only what's necessary for my family. After dinner, we study together. My husband takes English classes to advance his career, I practice Chinese, our eldest does homework, and the little one colors.

Our salaries are not high yet, but I believe our future will be brighter because of the work we are putting in today.