Inside the toxic beauty trend pushing young men to hit themselves with hammers

By AFP   April 20, 2025 | 04:27 pm PT
Inside the toxic beauty trend pushing young men to hit themselves with hammers
The looksmaxxing trend is fueling an industry of influencers who promote what experts call toxic male beauty standards. Photo by AFP
In pursuit of a chiseled jawline, a male TikTok influencer strikes his cheekbones with a hammer, spotlighting the rise of “looksmaxxing,” an online trend promoting unproven and sometimes dangerous techniques to boost physical appeal.

Looksmaxxing influencers, part of an online ecosystem dubbed the "manosphere" - have surged in popularity across social media, capitalizing on the insecurities of young men eager to boost their physical attractiveness to women.

In posts across TikTok, Instagram and YouTube, they promote pseudoscientific methods to achieve everything from pouty lips to chin extensions and almond-shaped "hunter eyes," often while monetizing their popularity by endorsing a range of consumer products.

In more extreme cases, these influencers advocate taking steroids, undergoing plastic surgery and even "leg-lengthening" procedures to become more attractive.

While women often turn to professional beauty services or consumer products, fueling a global industry worth hundreds of billions, the manosphere sometimes encourages a do-it-yourself approach using makeshift tools.

"Babe, what's taking you so long in the bathroom?" reads the caption flashing across a viral TikTok video of a man seen hitting his cheeks with the sharp edge of a hammer, in what he calls his "skincare routine."

Underneath the video are dozens of comments warning that "bone smashing," also known as the hammer technique, was "dangerous" while others hailed it as a legitimate way to achieve an angular jawline.

In other videos, British influencer Oscar Patel promoted "mewing," an unproven technique that involves pressing the tongue into the roof of the mouth for improving jaw and facial structure.

Without offering evidence, he told his nearly 188,000 TikTok followers that such tricks would turn them into a "PSL god," an internet slang for exceptionally attractive men, short for Perfectly Symmetrical Looks.

'Toxic combination'

In another video, U.S.-based TikToker Dillon Latham misleadingly told his 1.7 million followers to whiten their teeth by applying hydrogen peroxide to their teeth with a Q tip.

Some dentists warn that regularly using store-bought peroxide could damage tooth enamel and gums.

The looksmaxxing trend is powering a growing influencer economy built around promoting 'perfect' bodies and faces, often for personal profit, according to Siddharth Venkataramakrishnan, an analyst at the Institute for Strategic Dialogue.

"Among men, this is mixed with the misogyny of the manosphere, which often blames women for male insecurities, creating a toxic combination," he added.

Many looksmaxxing influencers appear to have a financial incentive, frequently leveraging their popularity to promote products ranging from skin cleansers to pheromone perfumes, and even Chinese knock-off watches.

The origins of looksmaxxing can be traced to "incel" communities: online spaces often marked by misogyny, where men blame women and feminism for their lack of romantic success.

"The incel ideology is being rebranded to looksmaxxing on TikTok," Anda Solea, a researcher at the School of Criminology and Criminal Justice at the University of Portsmouth, told AFP.

In a study, Solea found that incel-inspired accounts on TikTok were circumventing a ban on hateful language with a focus on looksmaxxing and more palatable words about self-improvement.

"There are a lot of pressures on men – we want to protect women from gender-based violence but we should also be careful about young men and boys," Solea said.

'Deeply damaging'

Other related maxxing trends have also gained traction, including "gymmaxxing," which focuses on building muscle, and "moneymaxxing," which centers on improving financial status - all with the ultimate goal of increasing sexual desirability.

Looksmaxxing influencers - many of whom idolize male models such as Australian Jordan Barrett and American Sean O'Pry - have amassed massive followings as algorithms propel their content to millions.

These algorithms can lead to real-world harm, experts warn.

The risks were spotlighted in the recent Netflix hit "Adolescence," which tells the story of a 13-year-old boy charged with killing a classmate after being exposed to misogynistic content online.

The fictional crime drama references the popular but unfounded "80/20" theory that claims 80% of women are attracted to 20% of men.

In a study last year, researchers at Dublin City University created fake accounts registered as teenage boys. They reported that their TikTok and YouTube feeds were "bombarded" with male supremacy and misogynistic content.

"More widely, this does feed into toxic beauty standards which affect men as well as women," said Venkataramakrishnan, from the Institute for Strategic Dialogue.

"The idea that if you don't look like a Hollywood star, you might as well give up trying for a relationship is deeply damaging."

 
 
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